Nope, it's not Tuesday (when I usually post), but tomorrow is Valentine's day and I know how many emotions are associated with that day, so I thought I'd send out a little support and loving in advance (make sure you read all the way through, because I will tell you about an amazing new webTV series that launches tomorrow). On Valentine’s Day, it’s so easy to get caught up in fear-based thinking. If you are single, you can get down on yourself for not being in a relationship and you start thinking that you aren’t good enough. That' no good! And if you are in a relationship, it’s sometimes easy to focus on the things that are wrong in the relationship because you put way too much pressure on your love to give you EVERYTHING you need.

Regardless of whether or not you are in a relationship, I want you to think about how you can love yourself more deeply. Because let's be honest: When you love yourself first, you are able to love that much more in your relationship, you are able to connect with others on a deeper level, and you open yourself up to attract the love that you desire in every aspect of your life. The more you love yourself, the more love will find you from everywhere else. It's the law of attraction.

So, here is what I want you to focus on tomorrow --besides obviously showing love to those you love: When you get up tomorrow morning think about what you desire to be loved for. Perhaps it's your extraordinary ability to make people feel comfortable and create a community, maybe it's your sense of humor that lights up any room, maybe it's your capability to tell your friends your honest opinion without sugar-coating things. Whatever you seek your friends, your partner, you parents, whoever to love about you, spend tomorrow loving that part about yourself.

I have seen the miracles that have occurred in my life once I truly started loving who I am. That is why I am so excited to share with you a webTV series called The Self Love Tour that will take you through fun and exciting ways of how you can show yourself more love. My friends Ali Leipzig and Natalie Berthold created The Self-Love Tour at www.selflovetour.tv and I know you will just love it. For my part, I am psyched.