When I was in my 20s and looking for love -for The ONE- I was constantly puzzling over how to be a desirable woman to men. And trust me, I was puzzling more times than I am proud to admit.
Should I be the cool, hard-to-get kind of girl or the mysterious one, the artsy one, the best-friend one, the sexy one... I mean, let's be honest, I was driving myself nuts without getting anywhere.
I would have moments (sometimes even a few fun-enough dates) of feeling like I clicked with someone, like I was desired. But most of the time I felt clueless, frustrated and like I wasn't playing this love game right.
As a result, I was not only unwontedly single, I also felt unworthy and lonely. The longer this went on for, the worse I felt about myself. How was it possible that I was capable of sparking interest in men, but incapable of creating a lasting desire -in them or in me?
The two big lessons I had to learn were:
1. I needed to figure out how to be desirable for myself first. In other words, who do I even really want to be? Which version of myself do I like hanging out with the most?
2. I had to realize that I don't have to be desirable to men in order to be happy. I have to be desirable to ONE MAN only (can you imagine the relief ;))!
I think what really messed with my head for a long time in addition is that we are being told that men don't like commitment and that relationships don't really last these days. But the truth is that men are absolutely wired for commitment when they find what my friend Giordana Toccaceli calls "a high value woman."
SO, don't just take it from me, but take a listen to Gio, an international intimacy and relationship expert, in her Free Webinar titled "3 Secrets of Highly Desirable Women."
This webinar is for women who find themselves longing for soul-satisfying love with an amazing man but keep experiencing things like:
- Men showing up to pursue you with a lot of interest at first but then pulling away, blowing hot and cold, and disappearing?
- Attracting men you aren't really into - while the men you are attracted to don't seem to passionately pursue you?
- Doing more work than a man to get commitment from him while quietly waiting for him to feel like he can't wait to spend all his time with you and make you his top priority?
In this Webinar, Gio is going to show you exactly what she teaches her high level clients, from multimillionaire CEOs to successful women from every field, including models, actresses, entrepreneurs and incredible every day women.
You are going to learn how to:
- Build intense attraction with men.
- Understand exactly what makes a man fall in love with you and stay in love with you.
- Experience a man’s continuous emotional desire for you, which is the key to him seeing you as the woman he adores, pursues and wants to commit to for life.
- The number one mistake smart, attractive & successful women make that has men lose attraction and pull away.
- How to bring a man closer to you and open his heart in a way that makes him see you as his one and only.
Lots of love to you!